Story for the Worker

I was a member of a swingers group called Brief encounter, Brief Encounter was for single swingers, it was great because just because we didn't have a true love in our life we didn't feel that we weren't able to mix with other swingers, I also found that after the break down of some relationships you sometimes feel insecure about yourself, you may have lost your True love to another and in the process lost your self worth.

A Lot of people have this notion that swingers is just for couples but what do you do if you were a couple but now aren't you don't just stop being a swinger and enjoying group sex all because you lost your true love, who to be honest couldn't of been your true love if you aren't together anymore, love should be a two way thing neither person should Feel more than the other one and if that is the case then it isn't true love.

All that Brief Encounter does is gives like minded people the opportunity to continue one of their favourite pass times while they aren't in a relationship, its also a good support system too, everyone is in the same boat, you could say its a singles club but the main difference is that not everyone in this club is out looking for a relationship so there is never any pressure to do anything other than have a brief sexual encounter with another person, if either parties wish to take it any further then that's up to the individual, but for me I haven't come across anyone that I have felt that way about sure yes I have met several people that I have had a purely physical relationship with and many one night stands although that's not what we swingers refer to them as, because as a swinger its not a one night stand its a way of life.

Its also very safe too everyone has to wear protection and if you are caught not wearing any then you are given a warning and if it continues even if the other person agrees then you will be asked to leave the club.