Story for the Worker

My boyfriend has a few friends that are swingers. He has told me some stories about some of them and it just fascinates me to hear about them. I don't really understand how people can do that. I mean a married couple that share something that is suppose to be for just one person, your husband or your wife, that intimacy is suppose to be shared just with one person right? I thought it was against the law to be intimate with someone other than your spouse, to be caressing someone, to love someone other than the person you married.

Me and my boyfriend don't really spend that much time with his friends that are swingers. But when we do spend time with them, it's normal activities like playing poker at one another's house, or go see a movie, or things like that. There have been times that they have invited us to join their swingers club and have a few drinks, but we always politely tell them that we aren't interested. And they dont' push the subject, if they did, we wouldn't still be friends with them.

They have described in the past about the swingers clubs they go to. Which wasn't bad, they just wanted to tell us about this one time that they had gone. They said there was this new club that they had gone to about a week ago. It was really nice inside with soft couches instead of booths by the tables, and that they had a really cool dance floor that was big enough for over hundred people at once. The night they had gone to try the new place out to see if they would like it, they had a live band. I don't remember the band they said that was playing, but they said they were really good and they had gone out on the dance floor to dance a few dozen times. They said that they had a really good time and that they were going back there next week when there was another live band playing.

It sounds like a really nice time and a nice club, but it is still a type of club that is something that we really don't agree with. It's nice with it's live bands, delicious drinks, and soft couches and all, but it is still a swingers club and that is something that we don't want to be part of.